IS IT NECESSARY TO HAVE KIDS IF YOU ARE MARRIED? CAN’T WE BE CHILDFREE TO CONTROL OVER POPULATION?
You don't need to have your own child to be happy in your life, there are lot of kids in this country who are being without parents.
Typical Indian marriage system thinks one who get married should definitely have a child to be happy in their life, is it really necessary to have a child to be happy in life?? What kind of happiness do parents get from kids. Ask a question to yourself why do you really want to have a child, is it just because you want to have a heir, who can make you proud when he/she grows up and who can take your seed to coming decades. Is it true?
Think about the population which is just growing year over year, think about the scarcity which is gonna come in coming decades. Our parents had no one to guide them to control birth rates of babies. Because all deliveries used to happen in villages itself without involvement of any government. So government never had control over birth rate especially in villages?
Do you really think your kids can live happily in this world once they become adults, or do you really think your grand children will survive with this over population problems?
If you are having a kid, your kid will have a kid, their kid will have kids so it goes on, you are leaving your footprints for decades. As you footprints go long your heirs and your kids heirs will see the scarcity and over population problems.
In India, there is so much discrimination towards the childless women, they even don't allow those women to participate in their function ritual or festive ritual, is it really called humanity?
Is it necessary to become a mother if you get married and is it necessary to give a birth for being born as a woman, is it necessary that a woman should go through a motherhood in her life. Why people think that we should love only our kids and we don’t care about other and we don’t care about society how ever it goes. Is it a sin to give a life to the kids who can’t offered basic necessities such as food and education.
Think before you take a decision about having a child. Do we really need our own kids to be happy and can’t we be happy by taking care of the kids who doesn’t have parents and don’t you think that you are doing a big favor to the society and future generations by not producing more kids?
Regards,
Prahlad
